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LDS Recovery and Healing Resources is a site for members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who are looking for hope and healing on their path towards recovery from Pornography, Sexual Addiction, and Codependency. It is also a place for spouses and family of porn/sex addicts to become educated and find their own path towards healing.

This site although not officially associated with nor endorsed by the LDS Church will strive to:

  • Promote faith based hope and healing for those affected by pornography/sexual addiction (both addicts and loved ones of addicts). 

  • Post content that adheres with the principle and teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

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Articles on Addiction and Recovery


A Parent's Love and Fear: An Alcoholics Recovery
(M. Catherine Thomas, Ensign, July 1993)

Answering Questions About Porn Addiction
(Dorthy Maryon, Deseret News, Sept. 2010)

Couple Recovery from Sexual Addiction/CoAddiction
(Jennifer P. Schneider, M.D. and Burton H. Schneider, M.A., M. Ed.)

Creating a Safe Place to Talk about Dangerous Things
Jeffrey J. Ford, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), LDS.org)

Disarming the Triggers
(Waterfall concept.org)

Drawing Together When Pornography Threatens to Tear Apart Your Marriage
(Mark Chamberlain, PhD, and Rebecca Jorgensen, PhD, LDS.org)

Fight the New Drug Campaign
(Whitney Sorensen - LDS Living - August 31, 2011)

Fighting the Battle Against Pornography
(Briana Stewart, LDS Living- April 17, 2012)

From Fear to Hope, Overcoming Pornography Addiction is Possible
(Sarah Jane Weaver, LDS Church News, Oct. 2010)

Hard to Wallow at Porns Edge
(Jay Evensen , Deseret News, May 2012)

Healing Concepts for Women Impacted by Pornography
Jill C. Manning, PhD, LMFT (LDS.org)

Healing Through the Atonement
(Bill via Mormon Mommy Blogs, April 2012)

Hope and Healing for Pornography Addiction
(Trent Toone, Deseret News, Sept. 2012)

Hope and Healing: Dealing with Addiction
(By Michael D. Gardner, LDS Family Services, Ensign, July 2008)

How Do I Help Someone Addicted to Pornography
(Gordon S. Bruin, M.A., C.M.H.C., LDS Living - November 20, 2012)

Pornography, the Deadly Carrier
President Thomas S. Monson

Overcoming Addiction Through the Atonement (LDS.org)
(Benjamin R. Erwin, LDS Family Services, Sept. 2012)

Overcoming Addiction to Pornography
(Dr. Michael Gardner, LDS Business College Devotional, November 3, 2009)

Overcoming Pornography Addiction with the Language of Recovery
(Gordon S. Bruin, M.A., C.M.H.C., LDS Living - November 20, 2012)

Pornography Addiction and Families
(Mandy Morgan, Deseret News, Oct. 20 2012)

Pornography Grips You with Claws
(Jacob Hancock, Deseret News, Sept. 20 201)

Pornography It's My Fight and Yours

Pornography Not a Victimless Act
(Sarah Jane Weaver,Church News staff writer, May 9, 2011)

Pornography Satan's Power Tool
 (Stephanie Dibb, Diapers and Divinity.com, Feb. 2012)

Selfish Living Endangers Marriages
( Sharon Haddock, Deseret News, Aug. 18 2010)

Shame Keeps Porn in the Dark
 (Jacob Hancock, Deseret News, Sept. 2010)

Focus on the Family Series (For Christian)
Stages of Porn Addiction (Gene McConnell & Keith Campbell)
Pornography Lies (Gene McConnell & Keith Campbell)
Traveling Towards Marital Intimacy (Paul Couhlin, 2009)

Straight Talk to Husbands Who Watch Porn
(By Covenant Eyes, published on S.A.Lifeline.org, May 28, 2011)

Surrender is Essential to Conquering Addiction
(Gordon S. Bruin, M.A., C.M.H.C., LDS Living- December 26, 2012)

Things I've Learned the Hard way
(Unknown Author, Mormon Mommy Blogs, April 8, 2010) 

What a Woman Can Do?
(, )

You, Me, and Your Addiction for Eternity
( Brannon Patrick LCSW, Mormon Mommy Blogs, Sept. 2012)

Books for Recovery and Healing


A list of books recommended by websites, experts, and people who are facing this challenge. 

Courtesy of http://www.hopeandhealinglds.com/forum-for-wives/

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A Gentle Path Through the Twelve Steps, The Classic Guide for All People In the Process of Recovery (1993), Patrick Carnes, Ph.D. Hazelden. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors, Books Relating to 12-Step Programs)

Addiction Recovery Program: A Guide to Addiction Recovery and Healing, LDS Family Services. (TAGS: Books Relating to 12-Step Programs for the Sexually Addicted)

Affairs: A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity (1999), Emily M. Brown. (TAGS: For Spouses)

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner has been Unfaithful (1994), Janis Abrams Spring. Harper Collins Publishers. (TAGS: For Spouses)

And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fullfillment (2004), Laura M. Brotherson, CFLE

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Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting, and Enjoying the Self, Charles Whitfield (TAGS: For Spouses and Family Members)

Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself, Melody Beattie; Hazelden. ­(TAGS: Written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict, General Perspective)

Confronting Pornography: A Guide to Prevention and Recovery for Individuals, Loved Ones, and Leaders (2005), Mark Chamberlain, Dan Gray, & Rory Reid (Editors); Deseret Book. (TAGS: Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction, LDS Perspective)

Cybersex Unhooked: A Workbook for Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior (2001), David L. Delmonico, Elizabeth Griffin & Joseph Moriarity. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

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Dance of Intimacy: A Woman’s Guide to Courageous Act of Change in Key Relationships, Harriet Lerner (TAGS: For Spouses and Family Members)

Discussing Pornography Problems with a Spouse: Confronting and Disclosing Secret Behaviors (2002 & 2005), Rory C. Reid & Dan Gray. Mental Health Publications, Salt Lake City, UT. (TAGS: For Spouses)

Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again. Michele Weiner-Davis. (TAGS: For Couples)

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Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual & Relationship Recovery (2005), Patrick Carnes. (TAGS: For Couples)

From Heartache to Healing: Finding Power In Christ to Deal With A Loved One’s Sexual Addiction (2010), Colleen C. & Philip A. Harrison, Windhaven Publishing. (TAGS: Written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict, LDS Perspective)

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Growing Up: Gospel Answers about Maturation and Sex (2000), Brad Wilcox; Deseret Book Company. (TAGS: Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality, LDS Perspective)

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He Did Deliver Me from Bondage (2002), Colleen G. Harrison; Windhaven Publishing and Productions. (TAGS: Books Relating to 12-Step Programs for the Sexually Addicted or for an Afflicted Spouse or Loved One, LDS Perspective)

He Restoreth My Soul: Understanding and Breaking the Chemical and Spiritual Chains of Pornography Addiction Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ (2010), Donald L. Hilton, Jr., M.D.; Forward Press. (TAGS: Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction, LDS Perspective)

Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction (2004). Mark Laaser. Zondervan Publishing, Grand Rapids, Michigan. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

Heartache to Healing by Colleen and Phil Harrison

Home Invasion: Protecting Your Family in a Culture that’s Gone Stark Raving Mad. Rebecca Hagelin. (TAGS: For Parents)

How and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child’s Sexual Character. Brenna & Stan Jones. (TAGS: For Parents, Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To, Janis A. Spring (TAGS: For Spouses and Family Members)

How to Talk to Your Child about Sex (1999), Linda and Richard Eyre; St. Mark’s Press. (TAGS: Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality, LDS Perspective)

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In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior (2001), Patrick Carnes, David L. Delmonico & Elizabeth Griffin. Hazelden, Center City, MN. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal (2001), Marlene M. Maheu & Rona B. Subotnik. Sourcebooks Inc., Naperville, Illinois. (TAGS: For Spouses)

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Kids Ask About Sex: Honest Answers for Every Age. Edited by Melissa R. Cox & the Medical Institute for Sexual Health. (TAGS: For Parents, Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

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Let Virtue Garnish Thy Thoughts, LDS Church Distribution.

Like Dragons Did They Fight: A Look Into the Addiction Fighting Principles of the Sons of Helaman Program (2012), Maurice W. Harker, LPC with Lucas J. Reynolds.

Living with Your Husband’s Secret Wars (1999), Marsha Means. Fleming H. Revell, Grand Rapids, MI. (TAGS: For Spouses)

Living a Covenant Marriage: Practical Advice from Thirteen Experts Who've Walked in Your Shoes, (2004), Edited by Douglas E. Brinley and Daniel K. Judd, Salt Lake City, UT.

Lord, I Believe; Help Thou Mine Unbelief, Rod W. Jeppsen (TAGS: For Spouses and Family Members)

Lord, I Believe; Help Thou Mine Unbelief: A Workbook Approach (2005), Rod W. Jeppsen. (TAGS: Written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict, LDS Perspective)

Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity (2011), Mark Chamberlain, PhD & Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT. (TAGS: Written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict, LDS Perspective)

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Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life, Marshall B. Rosenberg. (TAGS: For Couples)
NOT “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity (2004), Shirley Glass and Jean Coppock Staeheli. (TAGS: For Spouses)

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Open Hearts: Renewing Relationships with Recovery, Romance & Reality (1999), Patrick Carnes, Debra Laaser & Mark Laaser. (TAGS: For Couples)

Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction (2001), Patrick Carnes; Hazelden. (TAGS: Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction, General Perspective)

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Parenting Teens with Love & Logic. Foster W. Cline & Jim Fay. (TAGS: For Parents, Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

Parenting with Love & Logic. Foster W. Cline & Jim Fay. (TAGS: For Parents, Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

Pornified: How Pornography is Transforming Our Lives, Our Relationships, and Our Families. Pamela Paul. (TAGS: For Parents)

Protecting Your Child in an X-Rated World: What You Need to Know to Make a Difference. Frank York & Jan LaRue. (TAGS: For Parents)

Purity and Passion: Spiritual Truths about Intimacy That Will Strengthen Your Marriage. Wendy L. Watson. Deseret Book. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

Purity and Passion: Spiritual Truths about Intimacy That Will Strengthen Your Marriage. Wendy L. Watson, Deseret Book. (TAGS: For Couples)

Putting on the Armor of God (the green bible) – written by a recovering sex addict

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Rock-Solid Relationships: Strengthening Personal Relationships With Wisdom from the Scriptures, Wendy L. Watson, Deseret Book. (TAGS: For Couples)

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S-Anon 12-Steps, S-Anon Literature [for the loved ones of sexual addicts] www.sa.org (TAGS: Relating to 12-Step Programs for an Afflicted Spouse or Loved One)

Sexaholics Anonymous White Book (1989), SA Literature. — For Pornography & Sexual Addicts, www.sa.org (TAGS: Books Relating to 12-Step Programs for the Sexually Addicted)

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Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World that Pulls Us Apart, William J. Doherty, Guilford Press. (TAGS: For Couples)

“Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality: A Parent’s Guide,” see www.lds.org Family Home Evening Resource Manual (1983), (p 253–60). (TAGS: Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality, LDS Perspective)

Ten Talks Parents Must Have with Their Children about Sex and Character. Pepper Schwartz & Dominic Cappello. (TAGS: For Parents, Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

The Anatomy of Peace

The Courage to Be Yourself

The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY. (TAGS: For Spouses)

The Dance of Deception: A Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women’s Relationships, Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY. (TAGS: For Spouses)

The Love Dare (2008), Stephen and Alex Kendrick.

The Dance of Intimacy. Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY. (TAGS: For Spouses)
The Peacegiver: How Christ Offers to Heal our Hearts and Homes, James L. Ferrell, Deseret Book. (TAGS: For Couples)

The Porn Trap (2008), Wendy Maltz & Larry Maltz. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. John M. Gottman. Three Rivers Press. (TAGS: For Couples)

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What Can I Do About Me? Healing from the Trauma of My Husband's Sex and Pornography Addiction (2013), Rhyll Anne Croshaw

What’s the Big Deal about Pornography? A Guide for the Internet Generation (2008), Jill C. Manning; Shadow Mountain Press (General Audience/Parents and Youth). (TAGS: Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction, General Perspective; For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

Where Did I Come From? (2000), Peter Mayle; Kensington Publishing Corp. (TAGS: Teaching Children about Healthy Sexuality)

Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul. John Eldredge. (TAGS: For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors)

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Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal (2009), Barbara Steffens & Marsha Means; New Horizon. ­(TAGS: Written to the Afflicted Spouse or Loved One of a Pornography and Sexual Addict, General Perspective)

(Many of these titles are from the following sources: http://salifeline.org/resources/, http://www.drjillcmanning.com/id12.html, http://combatingpornography.org)